Raised in Fear — Why You Feel This Way
Make sense of survival modes (fawn, freeze, fight/flight), self-blame, and your nervous system—so change feels possible.
Module 1A bold, no-fluff scriptbook to help you set boundaries that stick — without guilt, confusion, or second-guessing. Includes exact words to say in real-life scenarios when you’re finally done being walked over.
New books are coming — raw, honest, and written for the ones who lie awake thinking too much.
If your mind gets loud at night, these are for you.
Stay Unfiltered,
Hayley x
The Boundary Scriptbook is your go-to toolkit for those moments when you want to speak up — but your mind goes blank.
You know the feeling. You’re trying to hold your ground, say what you need, and stop letting people walk all over you — but the words just won’t come. Or when they do, it’s hours later, alone in the shower, rewriting the scene in your head.
This book changes that.
Inside you’ll find real-life, ready-to-use scripts for everyday situations that leave you tangled in guilt, people-pleasing, or internal panic. Whether it’s an invasive parent, a manipulative ex, an entitled colleague, or a friend who keeps crossing the line — the words are here.
You’ll learn how to:
Say no without spiralling into apology
Hold your line when someone pushes back
Speak clearly when you’re triggered or frozen
Set limits with people who don’t usually hear “no”
Protect your peace — without justifying your existence
This isn’t about being cold or rude — it’s about being clear.
And calm. And powerful.
Because boundaries aren’t just something you set — they’re something you say.
Includes:
✓ Scripts for family, work, relationships, and more
✓ Emergency one-liners when your nervous system goes blank
✓ Notes pages to customise your own go-to phrases
✓ Trauma-aware, real-world tone — no therapy jargon
This is the scriptbook I wish I had when I was being walked over.
Now it’s yours.
Sometimes the smallest step is the one that makes life feel lighter.
These aren’t about pushing harder—they’re about giving yourself space. Space to breathe. Space to reset. Space to remember you don’t have to carry it all alone.
For the women whose minds race when the world goes quiet.
If you’ve ever felt wide awake at 3AM — carrying too much, thinking too fast — this is for you.
Read more about this book →This isn’t about pushing through. It’s about finding your way back — to calm, to clarity, to yourself.
This is where burnout starts to lift. Small steps. Real shifts. A way back that actually lasts.
No more pushing through. No more white-knuckling it. Here’s where it shifts:
This is your reset point — no fluff, no overwhelm. Just clear language, calm tools, and next steps you can use today.
No fluff. A clear 6-module path + practical toolkits you’ll actually use.
Make sense of survival modes (fawn, freeze, fight/flight), self-blame, and your nervous system—so change feels possible.
Module 1Spot the “be nice, be useful, be quiet” rules, perfectionism, and over-functioning—then start unhooking them.
Module 2Language that works under pressure: clear lines, practice responses, and consequences that don’t wobble.
Module 3Recognise love-bombing, DARVO, guilt hooks, and subtle control—plus how to respond without over-explaining.
Module 43-minute resets for spirals: breath cues, grounding prompts, and “body brakes” you can use anywhere.
Module 5Close loops, cut energy leaks, and set one brave priority each week—so life starts to be yours again.
Module 6Copy-and-use scripts for “No”, “Not right now”, and “That doesn’t work for me”—for family, partners, work, and friends.
Scripts & TemplatesOne-page map for your line, your words, and your exit—so hard talks don’t spiral.
One-PagerShort prompts that unhook “I’m the problem” and replace it with clarity and choice.
Prompt Pack10-minute review to reset, reclaim energy, and choose one next right thing.
ChecklistSimple visual: your Yes / No / Maybe zones and responses when lines are crossed.
Visual MapShort audio pep-talks for the “I can’t” moments—so you don’t white-knuckle alone.
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