Hayley Charlton

QUEEN OF BOUNDARIES™ — MEMBERSHIP

Where You Reign™

Not empowerment. Sovereignty.

This is not about fixing yourself. It’s about reclaiming what was already yours.

You’ve carried roles that drained you — fixer, pleaser, peacekeeper — but they don’t get to own you anymore.

Where You Reign™ is where you stop apologising, stop disappearing, and step into your crown. This isn’t a retreat. It’s a declaration.

Claim Your Crown
QUEEN OF BOUNDARIES — MEMBERSHIP

Dashboard

One clean home screen. See this week’s Drop, your progress, saved scripts, and what’s new — without the noise of a feed.

The Vault

Your private library of tools, trainings, and downloads — organised and searchable. Calm clarity on tap, 24/7.

The Weekly Drop

Short, sharp resets: a Power Script™, pattern breaker, or mindset shift designed to disrupt the spiral in under five minutes.

Power Scripts™ Library

Language that lands. Boundaries, exits, truths — the words you wish you’d had, ready when you need them.

Comeback Kit

Rapid reset protocols for when it hits the fan. Clear steps to stabilise, re-center, and move with authority.

My Tribe

Private, emotionally intelligent community spaces. Zero performative posting — just grounded support and proof you’re not alone.

The Academy

Deep-dive trainings and mini-courses. Self-led, practical, and built to change behaviour — not fill time.

Events

Live sessions and pop-up intensives (when available). Optional — the platform works even if you never attend live.

QUEEN OF BOUNDARIES — MEMBERSHIP

The Five Foundations of Power

You’re not just joining — you’re becoming untouchable.

The Vault

Your private library — including Power Scripts™. Everything organised, searchable, and ready when it matters.

The Weekly Drop

One sharp dose a week — a script, shift, or interrupt. Built for real life, not theory.

My Tribe

Private, emotionally intelligent spaces off social. Quiet check-ins, clear truth. No performance.

Surprise & Delight

Unscheduled drops — prompts, scripts, and anchors — landing exactly when you need them.

Identity Shift

No guilt in your no. No shrinking in the room. The small moments become your new normal.

QUEEN OF BOUNDARIES™

Where You Reign™ Is Opening Soon

Be first inside. Claim your crown before the doors open to the world.

Claim Your Crown™
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Quick prompts, calm scripts, zero fluff.

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    Your Reset Starts Here

    Sometimes the smallest step is the one that makes life feel lighter.

    • Words when you freeze: simple scripts for tough moments.
    • Quiet the noise: quick prompts that bring clarity fast.
    • Reset on the go: grounding exercises you can use anywhere.

    These aren’t about pushing harder—they’re about giving yourself space. Space to breathe. Space to reset. Space to remember you don’t have to carry it all alone.

    Too Much Noise – The 3AM Club

    For the women whose minds race when the world goes quiet.

    • Truth at 3AM: The thoughts you can’t silence when the world is asleep.
    • Flux & Worry: The in-between spaces where nothing feels steady.
    • Safe Belonging: Words that remind you you’re not alone in the dark.

    If you’ve ever felt wide awake at 3AM — carrying too much, thinking too fast — this is for you.

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    Real talk for real days!

    Get honest, unfiltered insights straight to your inbox — no fluff, no pressure, just the kind of clarity that hits when you need it most.
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      Start your way back...

      This isn’t about pushing through. It’s about finding your way back — to calm, to clarity, to yourself.

      • Step 1: Pause the spiral — simple resets that ground you in the moment.
      • Step 2: Rebuild steady boundaries — no guilt, no apology, just solid ground.
      • Step 3: Create space for you — practical tools to make life lighter, not heavier.

      This is where burnout starts to lift. Small steps. Real shifts. A way back that actually lasts.

      Let’s Find Your Turning Point

      No more pushing through. No more white-knuckling it. Here’s where it shifts:

      • Truth 1: Forcing it isn’t working — and it never will.
      • Truth 2: Motivation fades. Clarity and tools don’t.
      • Truth 3: You don’t need more hustle. You need a plan that sticks.

      This is your reset point — no fluff, no overwhelm. Just clear language, calm tools, and next steps you can use today.

      What You’ll Get Inside Done Pretending

      No fluff. A clear 6-module path + practical toolkits you’ll actually use.

      Core Modules

      Raised in Fear — Why You Feel This Way

      Make sense of survival modes (fawn, freeze, fight/flight), self-blame, and your nervous system—so change feels possible.

      Module 1

      The Rules You Learned to Survive

      Spot the “be nice, be useful, be quiet” rules, perfectionism, and over-functioning—then start unhooking them.

      Module 2

      Boundaries That Hold

      Language that works under pressure: clear lines, practice responses, and consequences that don’t wobble.

      Module 3

      The Red-Flag Decoder

      Recognise love-bombing, DARVO, guilt hooks, and subtle control—plus how to respond without over-explaining.

      Module 4

      Emergency Calm Kit

      3-minute resets for spirals: breath cues, grounding prompts, and “body brakes” you can use anywhere.

      Module 5

      Reclaiming Energy & Agency

      Close loops, cut energy leaks, and set one brave priority each week—so life starts to be yours again.

      Module 6

      Downloadable Toolkits

      Boundary Scripts Library

      Copy-and-use scripts for “No”, “Not right now”, and “That doesn’t work for me”—for family, partners, work, and friends.

      Scripts & Templates

      Conversation Planner

      One-page map for your line, your words, and your exit—so hard talks don’t spiral.

      One-Pager

      Guilt Reframe Prompts

      Short prompts that unhook “I’m the problem” and replace it with clarity and choice.

      Prompt Pack

      Weekly Reset Checklist

      10-minute review to reset, reclaim energy, and choose one next right thing.

      Checklist

      Boundary Map

      Simple visual: your Yes / No / Maybe zones and responses when lines are crossed.

      Visual Map

      Hard-Day Audio

      Short audio pep-talks for the “I can’t” moments—so you don’t white-knuckle alone.

      Audio Support

      Done Pretending™

      You’ve carried it all, kept it together, and smiled through the cracks.
      Done Pretending is where the mask comes off — and you finally get tools that stick.

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        Where You Reign™ Waitlist

        A private space for women who are done performing and explaining — women ready to reclaim their power.

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          1:1 Coaching — Priority List

          If you’re done being walked over and want hands-on help.

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