Hayley Charlton

The Financial Rebuild

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What if “holding it together” has been blocking your rebuild?

You’ve spent years managing chaos — emotions, finances, relationships — running on resilience instead of rest. You kept it all afloat, even when everything inside you was sinking.

But strength isn’t just survival. Real power comes when you stop managing the storm and start rebuilding from the wreckage — calmly, clearly, and on your own terms.

  • Detach from what’s been draining your energy and money
  • Replace guilt with grounded confidence
  • Learn emotional and financial systems that actually protect you

This is where your rebuild begins — not with hype, but with honesty.

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Your Boundary-Building Bookshelf...

Boundary Scriptbook and Toolkit Bundle

Get both of my most popular tools in one powerful package — The Boundary Scriptbook + The Boundary Toolkit. Your words and your strategies together, so you can set boundaries with clarity, confidence, and zero guilt.

£27.99

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The Boundary Toolkit

The Boundary Toolkit gives you the practical words and strategies you need when “enough is enough.” Packed with scripts, exercises, and prompts, it’s your go-to guide for setting limits without guilt and protecting your peace.

£20.99

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Too Much Noise – The 3AM Club…

A fierce and intimate collection for overthinkers, night wanderers, and healing hearts. Perfect for anyone who feels everything — especially when the rest of the world is asleep.

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My Story. Your Reminder You’re Not Alone.

This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s the truth. I know what it feels like to look fine on the outside while everything inside you is running on empty. I know the quiet panic of holding it all together for everyone else, and the exhaustion that comes from living like that for too long.

Burnout. Breakdowns. Starting over when it feels like you’ve got nothing left. That’s part of my story. And I’m sharing it here because you don’t need another “perfect” voice telling you how to live — you need something real. Someone who’s been through it. Someone who gets it.

If any of this sounds like you, I want you to know: you’re not broken, and you’re not alone. There’s a way forward, even if it’s messy, even if it’s slower than you hoped.

Press play. Take what you need. Leave the rest. And if all you can do today is listen and breathe — that’s more than enough.

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COURSE • COMING SOON

No more shrinking. No more over-explaining. Practical tools to live like you mean it — without the apology.

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Hayley Unfiltered — Read the Latest

Raw, practical tools for when it’s heavy. Boundaries that hold. Mindset that calms. Start with the newest posts or dive into the classics.

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Your 25-Second Reset

A quick nervous-system reset you can use anytime.

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Where You Reign™

First to know when doors open. Quiet support, real momentum, no performance.

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Hayley Unfiltered

The story, the mission, and why this brand exists.

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What Women Are Telling Me…

Early feedback from readers, subscribers and DMs — shared with permission.

“I finally had words for it.”

Your language around “performing” vs “belonging” hit hard. I used one of your boundary lines with my sister that night. No drama — just clearer.

— M., newsletter subscriber
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“Short, real, and useable.”

I kept your “two-sentence pause” on my notes app. Used it in a meeting and didn’t spiral after. Tiny shift, big relief.

— A., Instagram DM
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“Felt less alone.”

Read your Hard Day piece at 2am. It didn’t fix the day — it made it bearable. I saved it for next time.

— L., site reader
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    Your Reset Starts Here

    Sometimes the smallest step is the one that makes life feel lighter.

    • Words when you freeze: simple scripts for tough moments.
    • Quiet the noise: quick prompts that bring clarity fast.
    • Reset on the go: grounding exercises you can use anywhere.

    These aren’t about pushing harder—they’re about giving yourself space. Space to breathe. Space to reset. Space to remember you don’t have to carry it all alone.

    Too Much Noise – The 3AM Club

    For the women whose minds race when the world goes quiet.

    • Truth at 3AM: The thoughts you can’t silence when the world is asleep.
    • Flux & Worry: The in-between spaces where nothing feels steady.
    • Safe Belonging: Words that remind you you’re not alone in the dark.

    If you’ve ever felt wide awake at 3AM — carrying too much, thinking too fast — this is for you.

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      Start your way back...

      This isn’t about pushing through. It’s about finding your way back — to calm, to clarity, to yourself.

      • Step 1: Pause the spiral — simple resets that ground you in the moment.
      • Step 2: Rebuild steady boundaries — no guilt, no apology, just solid ground.
      • Step 3: Create space for you — practical tools to make life lighter, not heavier.

      This is where burnout starts to lift. Small steps. Real shifts. A way back that actually lasts.

      Let’s Find Your Turning Point

      No more pushing through. No more white-knuckling it. Here’s where it shifts:

      • Truth 1: Forcing it isn’t working — and it never will.
      • Truth 2: Motivation fades. Clarity and tools don’t.
      • Truth 3: You don’t need more hustle. You need a plan that sticks.

      This is your reset point — no fluff, no overwhelm. Just clear language, calm tools, and next steps you can use today.

      What You’ll Get Inside Done Pretending

      No fluff. A clear 6-module path + practical toolkits you’ll actually use.

      Core Modules

      Raised in Fear — Why You Feel This Way

      Make sense of survival modes (fawn, freeze, fight/flight), self-blame, and your nervous system—so change feels possible.

      Module 1

      The Rules You Learned to Survive

      Spot the “be nice, be useful, be quiet” rules, perfectionism, and over-functioning—then start unhooking them.

      Module 2

      Boundaries That Hold

      Language that works under pressure: clear lines, practice responses, and consequences that don’t wobble.

      Module 3

      The Red-Flag Decoder

      Recognise love-bombing, DARVO, guilt hooks, and subtle control—plus how to respond without over-explaining.

      Module 4

      Emergency Calm Kit

      3-minute resets for spirals: breath cues, grounding prompts, and “body brakes” you can use anywhere.

      Module 5

      Reclaiming Energy & Agency

      Close loops, cut energy leaks, and set one brave priority each week—so life starts to be yours again.

      Module 6

      Downloadable Toolkits

      Boundary Scripts Library

      Copy-and-use scripts for “No”, “Not right now”, and “That doesn’t work for me”—for family, partners, work, and friends.

      Scripts & Templates

      Conversation Planner

      One-page map for your line, your words, and your exit—so hard talks don’t spiral.

      One-Pager

      Guilt Reframe Prompts

      Short prompts that unhook “I’m the problem” and replace it with clarity and choice.

      Prompt Pack

      Weekly Reset Checklist

      10-minute review to reset, reclaim energy, and choose one next right thing.

      Checklist

      Boundary Map

      Simple visual: your Yes / No / Maybe zones and responses when lines are crossed.

      Visual Map

      Hard-Day Audio

      Short audio pep-talks for the “I can’t” moments—so you don’t white-knuckle alone.

      Audio Support

      Done Pretending™

      You’ve carried it all, kept it together, and smiled through the cracks.
      Done Pretending is where the mask comes off — and you finally get tools that stick.

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        A private space for women who are done performing and explaining — women ready to reclaim their power.

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